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Author: Judy Conway

People in fifty different countries around the world bid Carlos and Donna Royal goodbye last night.  They have done a most excellent job of hosting The Owl Box in San Marcos, California since February 2010.  It was truly an amazing experience to watch Molly and McGee (the parent owls) mate, hatch and nurture four owlets.  There were six eggs, however one egg broke and one never hatched.  We were able to watch this process from day one.  Molly was a very nurturing mother and McGee was a good provider.  Did you know that owls can swallow a rat or rabbit whole?  The owlets grew too quickly and it was not long before they were leaving the box.  Now they have all left the box and can be seen residing in a nearby palm tree. Research shows that barn owls will reside within a five mile radius of where they were born.  It was very difficult to say farewell.

My daughter introduced me to Molly’s adventure on the Sportsman’s Paradise website.  Molly the Barn Owl became one of the top sites viewed on UStream and she even has her own “room” there.  By the time it was all said and done there were over 14 million views.

Carlos and Donna have dealt with all of the technical paraphernalia in their dining room, entertaining the news media people, national television for the Morning Show and virtually taking this experience worldwide.  Carlos is retired but probably worked harder than he ever has.  He scheduled time via Skype for classroom discussions across the country.  The children learned a great deal about barn owls.  If Carlos did not know the answer the first time around, he would do his research and knew the answer the next time it was asked.  In fact, we all have learned a great deal about barn owls.  They are beautiful caring creatures.

Carlos has been on duty 24/7 making sure that the cameras were adjusted properly and everything was working properly. He provided viewers with night vision cameras and day time cameras. There have been times when the owls have landed on the cameras sending what we saw askew necessitating Carlos climbing a ladder in the early morning hours in his pajamas making the necessary adjustments so we could all have a “bird’s eye view”!

Most people left their Molly webpage up and throughout the day and evening you would hear Carlos’ voice as he would bring up up to date on the latest developments with the owls and activities.  I will certainly miss that.

Carlos definitely went above and beyond what most people in his position would have done.  When people in the chat room were concerned that the owlets might fall out of the box, he built and added on a little porch type attachment.  And then he added a platform that the owlets were able to fly to close by the owl house and play.

Austin, Carlos and Donna’s grandson, was a big help with setting up the technical aspects.  He is still working on putting all the videos and photos that have been taken (and believe me there are a lot) for people to purchase copies of.

Eric Blehm, a renowned author and personal friend of the Royal’s is currently finishing up writing a book, “Molly the Owl” detailing the entire experience.  The book is  illustrated by Christopher Adams.  John Atkinson has kept us rolling in laughter by creating ecomics of Molly, McGee, the owlets, Carlos and Donna.  We all grew to love these owls.  You can read more about Molly the Barn Own of San Marcos, California and see photos at http://mollysbox.wordpress.com/blog/.  On this site you can actually see a photo of the actual owl house which sat 15 feet above the ground.

Besides being able to purchase the book, “Molly the Owl”, ecomics, and fine illustrations, we have also been able to purchase many other items of memorabilia. A portion of all of the sales will go to barn owl habitats in the area.

Carlos and Dona put their vacation on hold to share this experience with the world.  We are all hoping that there will be another episode in the future.  The night before we said goodbye, Molly and McGee were seen in the owl box “bonding”!  Who knows there may be new little owls in the near future.  We are all hoping this will be the case.  There are many people who are currently suffering owl withdrawal!

In closing, on behalf of many people, I want to thank Carlos and Dona for opening up their home to all of us for these past four months.  Also, much appreciation goes out to Austin, Eric, Chris and John.  Thank you all for making this all possible.  I can honestly say, “Gee that was fun, and I was part of it!”

Happy, safe travels Carlos and Donna!

Judy Conway

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Author: Judy Conway

We all have been faced with having to say goodbye.  Saying goodbye usually produces great heartache.  I hope this post will help you reflect on your past goodbyes and help them add meaning to your future hellos.

I was born in Nyack, New York.  I only lived there for approximately 6 weeks.  My dad was an operating engineer for Esso, working in Aruba.  So I spent the first 5 years of my life living on the “non-tourist” end of the island.  When we left for another job assignment I can remember saying goodbye to all my friends.  I especially remember saying goodbye to Billy, the black goat in our Kindergarten class!

As we grow older our goodbyes get harder.  With the nature of my dad’s employment I spent 17 years of my life traveling worldwide.  I attended many schools, and said goodbye to many friends.  Looking back, it was an education in itself being able to travel worldwide, but it also meant that I missed out on the normal growing up functions of life.  Longtime childhood friends, school activities, such as a prom, and your high school friendships rank on the top of the list. I became a pro at saying “goodbye.”  I truly believe that leaving so many friends is the reason I place such importance on relationships.

I recently received a notice about the death of one of my high school classmates.  He had lost his battle with cancer.  This prompted me to reflect on my life and thus wanting to share my feelings with others.

Goodbyes are an integral part of our lives.  We all go through changing jobs and saying goodbye to people we have worked with and grown close to.  My relationships with people are very important to me.  I can remember one job in particular.  I worked for SMRT, Inc. in Portland, Maine.  On my last day I managed to sob my way around 42 desks saying goodbye.  These people still hold a warm place in my heart.  This was my most gratifying, favorite job, other than being a mom!

Being a mom of two girls who loved animals, as do I, I have said many goodbyes to parakeets, dogs, cats, fish, rabbits and the list goes on.  I am one of those people who gets extremely attached to a pet so these were hard times.  I had a dog, Benson, I got as a puppy right after I was divorced who was a true, loyal friend.  He was always there to listen to the hard times I was going through.  After twelve years he became very ill, lost control of his bodily functions and was going blind.  I could not see him suffer any more so I had to have him put to sleep.  That was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do.  I still to this day get teary-eyed when I think of him and that was 18 years ago.

It is a devastating goodbye that we say to our parents when they die.   When our close friends pass away it is very hard.  I feel when we lose these people we suffer more from our loss.  These special people have gone on to a better place!

Two more hard goodbyes to express are those at the time of a divorce (or an intimate relationship), and also when your children grow up and get married and you say your goodbyes and wish them well in their new lives. That is a bitter sweet goodbye because as parents it is our goal to raise our children to be independent and be able to leave home to start on their own journey.

Yes goodbyes are difficult.  Hopefully, we learn something from each one of these losses (or changes in our lives).  As with my dad, he was the one who truly taught me the meaning of love.  I lost him when I was only 22 years old.  That left an enormous void in my life.  He never got to see, know and impart his wisdom to my children. These losses have helped me grow stronger in my life.

Because of my goodbyes I look at the new people that come into my life in a whole new light.  I wonder why I have met them, what I can learn from them, and how can I make a difference in their lives? I always ask, “Why has God brought this person to me?” when I meet someone new.  Nothing happens by accident.  I look forward to where this new relationship will take me.  I want to add value to the time spent with people in my life.  I want to leave a loving legacy behind me.  I do not want to live my life thinking about what I could have, would have or should have done!

Life goes by much too quickly.  Never miss the opportunity to tell someone how much you care for them.  Never miss the opportunity to help another person.   Live your life making a difference in other people’s lives.  Remember to live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly and leave the rest to God.

I wish you a life full of opportunities to share your love with others!

Judy Conway

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